Monday, May 26, 2008

OUT THERE

I went camping. Kind of rustic camping. No ten mile hike, rock climbing gear, ice axes, or snow caves involved but no thermarest, tent, fancy campfire coffeemaker, or folding dinner table either. Ok I'll admit I didn't take my thermarest because I forgot it and I didn't take a fancy campfire coffeemaker because I'm poor, but I did purposely leave the tent and a few other niceties behind. But we'll get to that a little later.



I had a pretty tough week, and by tough I mean it made me want to curl up in the fetal position and fade away. We got a new puppy which we named Sierra (after Sierra Nevada of course) that likes to get up at 4am. My son Benjamin was sick. Then my wife Lauren got sick too. Of course I got sick next after taking care of them. Work was a shit storm I was wading through on my own while my boss was out of town. Oh yeah, I was also trying to make a major life altering decision in the midst of the mayhem. Then Lauren took Benjamin and Sierra to Florida because her Grandmother had yet to meet her Great Grandson.



In all honesty I'm not the kind of guy that rejoices when his family goes out of town and I get the house to myself. Yeah it's fun for a day... maybe just a night. I watch an old documentary or two, sip a few quality brews, smoke a cigar and play the guitar really loud. Then I'm done and I want my family back. But this time it was a little easier. I was still sick when they left and I got to come home from work and pretty much go straight to sleep, which was exactly what the doctor ordered (the doctor being me). I'm happy to say that I made a full recovery with a day to spare before I had to return to work. That's when it hit me. CAMPING!!!!! The great outdoors! OUT THERE. What seems to have just become the space I have to pass through to get from building to car to building. I remembered all of a sudden that I love it OUT THERE.



I was so excited I packed in fifteen minutes. That's really quick when you consider I had to dig through closets and venture all the way into the attic to dust off my once often used gear that now sat under mountains of dust, cobwebs, Lauren's shoes, and a little insulation. Then I made the perfect mountain playlist for the drive. (samplings from said playlist: Patty Griffin, David Wilcox, Josh Ritter, Jack Johnson, Brett Dennen, Billy Pilgrim, Andrew Peterson and a host of others). Then I was off. I stopped to find a new hat to replace my recently retired Oobe hat.




It was a tough thing to do. That hat served me well for over seven years of my life. We braved rain, snow, dirt, sun, and everything else together in numerous states, and five different countries. We spent tons of time together OUT THERE. Time will only tell if this new hat has what it takes to fill old faithfuls shoes. But I digress. I drove into the mountains turning the music louder the further I got from civilization. Windows down, sunroof open, cheap cigar ash flying and i was feeling alive again. I just drove for hours. I wanted to see every mountain and stream I could think of within driving distance. I did. I drove too long. Dusk was fast approaching. I knew exactly where I was going to camp and I knew I wouldn't reach it until after dark. This didn't stop me, nay a lesser man may have turned back to his comfortable bed in the face of making camp in the dark, but not me. I high-tailed it to camp and missed the last lingering light of the sun by a mere twenty minutes. I got out my flashlights and stumbled off into the woods. Normally this would be a horrible idea but I know every step of the trail by heart and it's right next to a stream that flows under the bridge that I parked next to so there wasn't much chance of getting lost. If you lose your bearings all you have to do is walk down the stream until you hit the bridge, take a left, and your back where you started.


First things first, I collected wood and fashioned a crude fire ring. Fire is a vital part of a good camping trip in my book. The boy scouts would have been proud. It was going in mere minutes. Then came dinner. Delicious Ramen Noodles. The breakfast of champions. Then came... nothing. Yes nothing. That's the beauty of it. Firelight throwing shadows like slow motion dancers, the rush of the river behind me, the fireflies that seem to be talking in a mysterious language of flashing lights all around me in the woods, and nothing to worry me. I don't get stressed out very easy. If you ask my wife she will undoubtedly say that I don't worry enough. But OUT THERE, out where people used to live, out in the great outdoors, what worries I have melt away. I sat for some time by that fire. I couldn't tell you what I thought about most of the time. I don't believe I was thinking about anything most of the time, but it was refreshing. I feel close to God OUT THERE. It's like things are quiet enough that you finally notice He is sitting right next to you the whole time. When the sun came up the next morning I walked up the river to my favorite spot. There are two large rocks jutting out into the river, one from each bank, and they barely miss each other in the center and overlap each others span just a little bit. In this spot right where the water picks up speed in the narrows and snakes through the rocks is the perfect seat. Carved into the rocks is a natural recliner where I sat for hours in the sun. I skimmed through the current issue of Outside Magazine (always a good read), read The Good Book, and did alot more of nothing. After a little exploration I got back in the car to head home with a smile on my face.


The city can really get me down. The traffic, the gas prices, the politicians, the sensationalized (I don't think that's a word) news, the bills, the daily grind, the noise, the pollution, the waste, the constant displays of mans depravity, my sinful reactions to it all, I could go on for paragraphs. It all seems so broken. Honestly I'm not a strong enough man to deal with it most of the time. But sometimes, just every once in a while, when I leave it all behind, if I can get OUT THERE even just for a day, It makes me want to try again. It reminds me that one person can change things. Sure only one person usually makes small changes. But the thing about big changes, sweeping changes, things that change the world, is that they are almost always made up of many small changes.